Obat

Bertobat itu bukan cuman pergi berobat, tapi ngga mau minum obat.

~R

Witch to Woman

I like it a lot when the new Korean TV series tells a story of how love changes a person. From the worst, rude, heartless witch to a nice, lovely, caring woman. 

In reality, people hardly change.

Are we good enough to the point where we do not need to change anything anymore? Or is it our pride and comfort that hinders us to be a better person? 

Holy Spirit enables us to change. He teaches us to be humble when we are prideful. He reminds us to be careful in our words when we usually speak carelessly. He pokes with His soft voice and tells us to be forgiving when it is so hard to forgive. 

Are having that dramatic changes that God has intended us to be?

A zero into a hero. 

Big Fat Lie

I would be facilitating the cell group in GUPta Youth tonight. So, for the last two days I have been browsing my old posts to find some inspiration and testimonies how God has changed my life.

I write down in my notes, "Christianity without change is a big fat lie."

Oh well, as I was going through the posts, I read and read a lot about the goodness, kindness, and magnificent works that God has done in my life. I was reminded about how He was there through my ups and downs; struggling to finish my thesis, looking for a job, surviving in a whole new world, facing a weird employer, and some more.

It was good read; very good one even. However, I find that I don't really write many posts about the change. The change that God has done in my life. I don't really say I was so bad and God made me this and that (better). The reasons could be that the changing process is not finished yet, but it might also be that there are completed processes which I am too shy to share. So I am now thinking to write the change that has happened throughout my life.

The change
I used to be carefree (cuek). I cannot trust friends. I thought that friends were not real. I had an experience where the best of friends didn't consider me as best friends. I was hurted. So I shut myself up. I didn't want to make social contacts. I focused on the tasks I have been given. There was even a point, where I looked down on people. I wanted to live for myself.

God changes me now into a more socially-relatable person. I enjoy hanging out with friends. I began to find their worth. I treasure every moments, jokes, fights, and long discussions. I try to be there when they need me.

God is a relation-centered God. He is full of relationships. He has a relationship with the Jesus, with the Holy Spirit, with the believers. And He also would like to be in a relationship with those who have never known him. I think this is the reason He wants me to be more open to people, so that those people get to read us, to read Him in us.

(there may be a part 2 of this post)

So Good, It's True!

This excerpt was an answer for my friend's struggle on sleepless nights and wandering thoughts. I am so in awe of the way of God in meeting people's need. He is so good, so caring, so close, so real.

Depression can be experienced at many levels and for many different reasons. It’s rarely an easy thing to get out of depression. And, of course, there is a difference between being depressed and living in depression. Something may go differently than you had hoped and you feel depressed. But when your choices and your life begin to look different because of the negative feelings you have inside, then you are facing depression.

Depression is the fruit of something deeper. You shouldn't feel ashamed about your feelings, but you must know that God desires something better for you. He wants to comfort you and restore you to a life of joy. Get quiet before God and let Him be your counselor.

PSA 13:2 NIV

How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and day after day have sorrow in my heart? How long will my enemy triumph over me?

Smiling Boy

I saw a smile. So pure. So innocent. So carefree.

It makes me wonder, where along the way have I lost the sincerity?

No winning or losing, no I and my ego, no regrets and tears, it was maximized fun.

The arrogance, the evil ambition, the false intention, erase them all and help me smile that smile once again.

One Saturday

It feels so good to just relax, stay at home, have an easy conversation with my closest circle of family and friends rather than run sprint all the time.

I get it why God created the Sabbath. It is for our sake definitely. Thank you, God, I feel so recharged.

The Gourami

Eid ul-Fitr festival 1435 H. Second Day.

It was two in the morning and I could not fall asleep. As I was staring at the ceiling of my bedroom, I thought about the sweet sour Gourami in the refrigerator. Oh, the tenderness of the inside and the crusty outer appearance... Hmm... But I understood it was too late to have a late supper so I hold myself back and switched my mind to having the tasty fish in the morning for breakfast.

Morning came with the mosquitoes having their fill before I did. Dad was in the dining table asking Mom for something to eat. He complained that he had to wait too long for the Chicken Lodho (Ayam Lodho) at his almost everyday breakfast stop, Bu Sri's. Starving, he asked for anything the refrig had.

Thinking about the Gourami, I rushed to the dining table, did not want Dad to have all my tasty Gourami. Mom took it out for serving. I drooled. But something not usual showed. The plate where the fish was watery! The fish was literally soaked in water. Bad! Bad! We did not know where the water came from--it must be water from the freezer.

For a while we weighed the options of saving the fish, so sad we had to let it go, lest we wanted to get sick (maybe?).

Hi everyone! It's been sometime since I pushed my fingers onto the keyboard for this blog. A lot has happened--even though I try to minimize those life events--but in a few words, I am back to my homeland, Indonesia. The over-thinking period of staying or not staying in the Netherlands is over and a decision has been made. Tulungagung is my current stop (not sure until when) and it makes me feel a lot more alive!

The Gourami story is a little reminder for me that even the tiniest plan could fail. Who are we to boast about our future?I could not even make sure that I would eat the Gourami I saved after dinner. I hope we will keep calm if things really go wrong (in our eyes), for God does have a better plan for us! I ended up eating shrimps for breakfast... Kya!

Do not boast about tomorrow,
for you do not know what a day may bring. 

~ Proverbs 27:1 (NIV)

However, as it is written:
“What no eye has seen,
what no ear has heard,
and what no human mind has conceived”—
the things God has prepared for those who love him—

~ Corinthians 2:9 (NIV)